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Everyone have different ways of viewing things,
different ways of tackling problems,
different ways of coping stress,
different ways to survive,
different ways to react to situations,
different ways of tolerating,
different ways of managing,
different ways of expressing,
different ways of communciating,
different ways of answering
different ways of bullshitting,
different strengths
different weakness.

one should not try to change other's way of doing things. they may seemed to be wrong for you, but prefectly correct for them. who noes, maybe their methods may get the endproduct in a faster/better/more efficient way? I dont care about the process, all i care is the endproduct.
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超不甘心。 可是什么都不能做。 即使做了，不见得会改变什么。 失望，还是失望。 我现在只是在倒闭， 不让别人看到我的失望， 假装。 假装 还是 假装。
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someone just dig up my old wound yesterday
\(accidentally, i think she doesn't mean it/doesn't realise it)
& made me feel abit sian-ed before i slept.
didnt want to go,
because i am too proud to admit in front of them that i am disappointed/unhappy about their decision.
a way of running away.
this happpens whenever i have too high expectations on things & things dont turn out what you want them to be.

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i found this on the net
& my heart almost jumped out.
OMG
expectations building up

郁可唯-好朋友只是朋友 |


"好朋友只是朋友
还是朋友 不能够占有
好朋友疯狂以后
就一个人走 无所求

好朋友只是朋友
只能保留 一点点温柔
我知道什么时候回头
不打扰你的自由"
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it's all about how you assign the jobs to your team members, not whether one will contribute or not contribute to the the project.
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I just dont have the habit to reject people directly. i bet the only people i will directly say "NO" to is probably just tanyy,zm and yl. LOL. i just want everything to be nice, even if it's not nice underneath, at least it looks good on the surface. sometimes, it's kinda of tired to maintain this kind of relationship, however somehow i just think it's important to do it, to make things works, to make things move on & progress. who doesnt do this in the society?
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終わった、終わった、やっと終わった。それでも、配しないでははいられない。間違えた答えくて、７０％はわかりませんでした。つまり、実験値は 減るかもしれません。月曜日試験おわり次第家へ帰った。気分が悪いけと。

今は、アルバイトを探してています。難しいと思う。来週始まって日本語でインタビューした。何のアルバイトがほしいですか？最近は、いつも自分で考える。考えば考えるほど困った。金持ちだからといって、幸せとはかぎらない。だけど、ぶつぶつのせいで、今金持ちことは一番大切です。経歴は送った。働きたいからといって、お返事にありますせん。たとえあっても、「リーリンさん、おちてください」と言われました。いつまで私が持ちますか？　いつ？

事を沢山あります。付保まだ買えります。ビザ はまだ作ります。キャンプ の問題まだ了解します。アルバイトまだあります。人間関係に関して、直接あの人に話せる・申し込む？（外で雨がさあさあ。。やっとふった。）じゃ、また。